Your relationship status can have a big impact on your legal rights — from inheritance and property to decision-making in an emergency. Understanding the differences between marriage, civil partnership and cohabitation is essential for making informed choices about your future.
Marriage and Civil Partnership
Marriage and civil partnership give couples the strongest legal protections in Scotland. Spouses and civil partners automatically have significant rights in relation to inheritance, financial provision if the relationship ends, and decision-making if one partner loses capacity.
These rights apply even if there is no Will in place, although having a Will is still strongly recommended to ensure your estate is divided exactly as you intend.
Cohabitation
In Scotland, cohabiting couples — sometimes called “common law partners” — do not have the same rights as married couples or civil partners, no matter how long they have lived together.
Cohabitants can make certain claims if the relationship ends, but these rights are limited and must usually be pursued through the courts. If you separate, you may be able to claim a limited right to financial provision, but you must apply within one year of the separation.
If a cohabitant dies without a Will, their partner does not automatically inherit. They must apply to the court within six months, and the court has discretion over what, if anything, is awarded.
The Risks of Assuming You’re Protected
It’s a common myth that living together for a long period gives you the same rights as being married. This is not the case in Scotland. Without the legal framework of marriage or civil partnership, your rights may be limited — and you could be left in a vulnerable position if your partner dies or you separate.
One client had lived with his male partner for more than 30 years. To their family, they presented as friends sharing a home in later life. With no marriage and no mention in the Will, the surviving partner’s position was unprotected. After his partner’s death, the family did not recognise the relationship and sold the house.
If You Choose Not to Marry or Enter a Civil Partnership
There are many reasons why couples decide not to formalise their relationship — from past experiences to financial concerns. The important thing is to put other protections in place, such as:
- Making a Will
- Granting a Power of Attorney
- Considering a cohabitation agreement
- Reviewing how property is owned and whether this needs updating
Why a Power of Attorney Still Matters
Even if you are married or in a civil partnership, you do not automatically have the right to make decisions for your partner if they lose capacity. A Power of Attorney is the only way to give you that authority — and it is equally important for cohabiting couples.
Next Steps
Every couple’s situation is different. At Hastings Legal, we can help you understand your rights, identify any gaps in your protection, and put the right legal arrangements in place for your circumstances.
Call 01573 226999 or email enq@hastingslegal.co.uk to arrange a confidential discussion.

